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‘We’ve Survived a Lot’: Four Decades of Love, Loss & Pride at Brandy’s Piano Bar

MANHATTAN – Brandy’s Piano Bar and its longtime manager and owner, Jim Luzar, are survivors. For 43 years, the “neighborhood dive bar” on East 84th Street, as Luzar affectionately calls it, has been the meeting place for a chosen family of singers, actors, and other music fans, many of them gay. 

Luzar has been at Brandy’s since it opened in 1979, at the dawn of the AIDS crisis, when he took a job tending bar, and he has seen the arc of the epidemic evolve from fear to hope.

Brandy's owner Jim Luzar at the piano bar in 1993 | Brandy's Piano Bar
Brandy’s owner Jim Luzar at the piano bar in 1993 | Brandy’s Piano Bar

As the cruel disease caused by the human immunodeficiency virus, HIV, spread throughout the 1980s and 90s, Luzar wondered, as he thought many did, why he didn’t get sick. “Why me? Why did I make it? Why the hell am I still here?” 

His voice full of emotion, he whispered, “We survived.” 

Sitting at the black-stained wooden bar on a recent Sunday afternoon as Pride Month was getting underway, Luzar reflected on his decades-long run at Brandy’s, those loved and lost, and the meaning of Pride. The upright piano across from the bar, against the red-painted wall and under framed posters of Old World Paris and hit Broadway shows, seemed part of that history. 

Current owner Jim Luzar has been at Brandy’s since it opened in 1979
Current owner Jim Luzar has been at Brandy’s since it opened in 1979 | Nora Wesson for Upper East Site

The regular crowd that coalesced at Brandy’s in the early days of AIDS felt “beaten up by the government” because the epidemic went largely ignored, Luzar said. 

“Nobody seemed to care because it was the faggots that were dying,” he said. Luzar, with his stocky build and salt-and-pepper hair, remembers the fear in the early years of not knowing how the disease was transmitted. Every action, even the simplest of bar tasks, seemed to carry risks.

“We didn’t know what caused it or how you could get it.” 

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Initially dubbed GRID, or gay-related immunodeficiency, scientists at the time didn’t know what caused the disease now known as AIDS– acquired immunodeficiency syndrome. In May 1982, a New York Times headline warned Americans that a ‘New Homosexual Disorder Worries Health Officials.’

Mr. Luzar recalls a singer and pianist who was one of the first people at the bar to get sick from AIDS. None of the staff wanted to wash his glass after he finished his drinks, Luzar said. 

“You throw the glass away instead of washing it, because we didn’t know and you felt horrible,” he said. “Horrible, this man you absolutely adore.”

Happy hour at Brandy's during the early 1990s | Brandy's Piano Bar
Happy hour at Brandy’s during the early 1990s | Brandy’s Piano Bar

He emphasized how the sense of community and family at Brandy’s magnified the losses, but also provided some solace. Many performers and staff died of AIDS and a feeling of helplessness spread throughout the community. 

Luzar also remembers the survivor’s guilt from those days. “I remember the feelings of you know, you had the survivor guilt, big survivor guilt, why not me? These people, just sometimes it was three or four people a week at the height of it that you hear about, you know that lost their lives and the survivor’s guilt was amazing.”

But along with guilt came a steady resolve.

Lauren Mufson, a veteran Off-Broadway musical theater performer, who began singing at the Yorkville piano bar in 1987, said that the performers at the time tried to keep a positive attitude, despite the mounting losses, as they belted out Broadway show tunes. 

Veteran off-Broadway performer Lauren Mufson  began singing at the bar in 1987 | Brandy's Piano Bar
Veteran off-Broadway performer Lauren Mufson began singing at the bar in 1987 | Brandy’s Piano Bar

Amidst the “ongoing crisis” of losing staff and patrons, Mufson and her fellow musicians “just kept entertaining. You know, that’s really what we knew how to do, to just keep singing and creating a joyful atmosphere.”

Mufson said this Pride Month, like every Pride Month, is about survival and family. “We’ve lost a lot; we’ve survived a lot.”

Over the past decades, changes have been sweeping: the development of an AIDS drug ‘cocktail’ in 1995 that saved, and continues to save countless lives; the declaration of June as Pride Month by President Bill Clinton in 1999; the legalization of gay marriage in a 2015 Supreme Court decision; and multinational corporations now putting the rainbow symbol into their logos during June and advancing LGBTQ causes. 

Luzar recalls a time before society became so evolved, when he was living in Greenwich Village. 

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He’d look out his apartment window in those days and watch “heroes walking down the street. Yeah, literally heroes, you know, in wheelchairs, or with their parents, or parents of gay children, who were not gonna live much longer.” He remembers the thin faces, gray pallor, and sunken eyes of the sick, who he says, with tears in his eyes, looked like “zombies.”

“Pride is whatever those people want.” He wants to make those that lost their lives proud of how the community has carried on. Luzar admires the grit it took to live with AIDS — and die of it — before the ‘cocktail’— a combination of anti-viral drugs targeting HIV— was released.

“I bow to those people, and I can’t say enough how much I respect them. There’s still a few of them left but those back then, a whole bunch of them didn’t make it.”

From left to right: Former owner Joe Connell, singer Lauren Mufson, Ron Hess and current owner Jim Luzar in 1991 | Brandy's Piano Bar
From left to right: Former owner Joe Connell, singer Lauren Mufson, Ron Hess and current owner Jim Luzar in 1991 | Brandy’s Piano Bar

As for Pride Month every June, Luzar said he tries to stay away from the commercialism that has proliferated over the years, saying that the sensationalization it generates “makes a lot of money, and that’s a good thing,” but that the people are far more important. 

For her part, Mufson said she wants to educate future generations on the history of the queer community at Brandy’s, and beyond. 

“I think it’s important for our customers, who maybe are much younger, and maybe don’t know the history of AIDS and the AIDS crisis. For us to bring that up on a yearly basis, for us to celebrate their survival, and the continuing flourishing of, not just the bar but also the culture.”

Inside Brandy's Piano Bar  on East 84th Street | Nora Wesson for Upper East Site
Celebrating Pride Month at Brandy’s Piano Bar on East 84th Street | Nora Wesson for Upper East Site

Bartender and performer Lucas Sverdlen is part of those “future generations.” Working at Brandy’s for just over a year, he first came as a patron to hear Mufson sing. Soon, he was offered a job. 

Sverdlen calls the bar a welcoming place, where everyone knows everyone else, and the staff are always ready to lend a helping hand. 

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Luzar echoed this, saying that this Pride Month, as he does every year, he hopes to “hold on to that positivity that we got from these heroes fighting [to survive]. I hope that, as cliched as that sounds, their death wasn’t in vain.”

Terry Ross performs during open mic night at Brandy's Piano Bar during Pride Month | Nora Wesson for Upper East Site
Terry Ross performs during open mic night at Brandy’s Piano Bar during Pride Month | Nora Wesson for Upper East Site

“You honor those people by [celebrating] Pride these days,” he continued, “and that’s what I think it is. That’s what it was for me.”

Longtime patron Melissa Kotlen, whose son is queer, called the piano bar “one of the few places in the neighborhood you can be yourself.” She reiterated what many other customers had said, “inclusive of everyone, all the time, not just at Pride.”

“It’s an institution.” 

Brandy's buried in snow during the blizzard of 1987 | Brandy's Piano Bar
Brandy’s buried in snow during the blizzard of 1987 | Brandy’s Piano Bar

After the hardships of the Covid-19 pandemic and the forced shutdowns that closed the business for a few months in 2020, Mufson called Brandy’s “the little bar that could.” 

She said the bar has evolved since it opened all those years ago. It used to be “90% gay men” and now the crowd is mixed, but still as close as ever. “It’s very, most everybody comes together. Which is a very good thing.”

Mufson is also proud of the fact that the bar has been gay-owned since it opened — first by Rob Hoskins, then by former NYPD officer Joe Connell, who died in 2018, and now Luzar. 

She adds, “pride is a beautiful, beautiful opportunity for us to celebrate” the fact that the Brandy’s family has survived, and continues to thrive on the Upper East Side.

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